Tuesday, September 28, 2021

Hope is a call to action


Fear has gripped most of us in the last 2 years, and is being followed in places by a growing loss of hope. 

But what is hope?  In a recent thread on Twitter, Zen teacher and author Joan Halifax reminds us, “Hope is not the belief that everything will turn out well…. The Czech statesman Vaclav Havel said, ‘Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism.  It is not the conviction that something will turn out well but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out.’ Wise hope appears through our courage to rest in the field of radical uncertainty, and realise that this is the space from which we can engage.”

This reminds us that Gentian and Gorse are in the Uncertainty Group; and that by taking whichever flower remedies we need, our change in attitude means that we grow in both confidence and new competencies.

"Wise hope also reflects the understanding that what we do matters"

 “It’s when we look deeply and courageously that we realize we don’t know what will happen; this is when wise hope really comes alive, in this landscape between improbability and possibility […] and from this landscape, the imperative to act rises up.  Wise hope also reflects the understanding that what we do matters, even though how and when it may matter, who and what it may impact, are not things we can really know beforehand,” Joan continued.

Hope is a call to action, something we’re incapable of answering when we’re merely trying to remain positive or optimistic.  We may well need remedies other than Gorse to overcome hopelessness – Wild Rose for instance, or Mimulus for anxiety, or Elm or a number of others.  But they will give us the strength to face whatever difficulties lie ahead, and to help others as Dr Bach wanted and expected of his successors. 

“This is a sacred time we are in, and our work on behalf of others is sacred work.  Hope is a medicine that keeps us showing up.” ~ Joan Halifax


Quote via Brain Pickings



Tuesday, September 14, 2021

Living in the past


Photo: Ally Matson



Honeysuckle is the remedy for living in the past, nostalgia for the old days or maybe a lost loved one.  As far back as Chaucer, honeysuckle (woodbine) was used by him as a symbol of steadfastness in love[1], and in the language of flowers honeysuckle represents being united in love and devotion because of the flower’s clinging nature[2], which is symbolised by two stems twining round each other.

The stems or vines of honeysuckle are very tough, and were often used for ropes and harness.  In the Iron Age honeysuckle ropes were wound round the dead to anchor them to the earth.[3]

Honeysuckle essence is for when we are clinging to what’s dead and gone: “They do not expect further happiness such as they have had,” wrote Dr Bach in the Twelve Healers.   Those who need the Honeysuckle flower remedy are focused in the past and therefore have no energy left to focus on life in the present.   Their clinging to an earlier life can fill them with regrets that the good times are over; the very word ‘regret’ comes from the Old French regreter which meant ‘to bewail the dead.’

Lost love, memories, distant happiness, regret for what is past, all these can be helped by taking Honeysuckle.  It is mentioned (as woodbine) in a sweet poem by Alfred Austin.  His girlfriend must have asked ‘Will you still love me when I’m old and have no beauty?’ and this was his reply.


An Answer

Come, let us go into the lane, love mine,
And mark and gather what the Autumn grows:
The creamy elder mellowed into wine,
The russet hip that was the pink-white rose;
The amber woodbine into rubies turned,
The blackberry that was the bramble born;
Nor let the seeded clematis be spurned,
Nor pearls, that now are corals, of the thorn.
Look! what a lovely posy we have made
From the wild garden of the waning year.
So when, dear love, your summer is decayed,
Beauty more touching than is clustered here
Will linger in your life, and I shall cling
Closely as now, nor ask if it be Spring.

 

 

Photo: Ally Matson



[1] Witchipedia.com

[2] Gardenguides.com

[3] Elly Griffiths


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