Showing posts with label Cherry Plum. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cherry Plum. Show all posts

Thursday, January 26, 2023

The Fear of Feeling Vulnerable

 Cherry Plum


We’ve all heard of art treasures being concealed during times of war and other emergencies.  People have buried money and disguised jewels in order for them not to be discovered.  Tara Brach referred to this recently[1] when she described how a solid gold Buddha went unrecognised for centuries because it had been shrouded in plaster and clay.  In all these cases, fear of losing something valuable had caused people to hide their precious belongings.

When we struggle to deal with difficult times it’s fear which causes us to bury the treasure of our divine selves under the clay of emotional reactions.  It’s the equivalent of when someone is being physically beaten, they curl into a ball to protect their important organs.  The Cherry Plum fear which urges us to lash out, verbally or physically, is rooted in an extreme sense of vulnerability.  Tessa Jordan BFRP gives the example of a disabled person who strikes out, perhaps while a new carer is trying to undress them, because they are frightened and vulnerable. The gold of our higher self becomes buried under a survival response of anger.

When a car drives onto the pavement, almost running us down, the temptation to key the side as we walk past is another example. It feels as though we might do ‘fearful and dreaded things, not wished and known wrong’[2] which in a less vulnerable state we would never dream of doing.  I speak from experience …

Cherry Plum helps us to transcend fear and the vulnerability which goes with it, and prompts us to remember that essentially we are all souls with hearts of gold. All 38 remedies work to raise our vibrations so that in bringing our best selves to the surface we can shine love and light out into a dark world.

 

Photo: Ally Matson



[2] Dr Bach in The Twelve Healers

Friday, March 12, 2021

Cherry Plum




I’ve been learning about Cherry Plum this week. I say ‘learning’ because there’s nothing like experiencing a negative emotion for oneself in order to really understand the corresponding remedy.  Dr Bach knew this, and discovered many of his plants by suffering the emotion that would lead him to find his next flower essence.

Whilst Cherry Plum in the books is always shown as ‘fear of the mind giving way’, in our everyday lives a translation of that could be ‘fearful of showing anger to protect our vulnerability’.  We may not always be aware of feeling vulnerable but it is that which lies behind our fear – that we are not in control of a situation; that someone is dominating or manipulating us in an unacceptable way; or we feel threatened by interference with our freewill or even personal space, and we don’t know how to resolve the issue.

Early man would have felt vulnerable against attacks by wild animals with their superior strength, speed and fighting power.  His vulnerability worked to develop weapons and fire to ‘control’ his fear.  In this modern age we may live with fear on a daily basis, unconsciously, but we deal with it or sublimate it in a variety of ways.  But all fear is an expression of vulnerability – on every level, physical, emotional or mental.  And when we feel threatened because the situation is out of our control, then like a wild animal caught in a trap or fence, we want to snarl or bite to protect ourselves.

Thus Cherry Plum might help us more often than we realise.  When we’d like to throw a file at the boss, or ram the car in front because it had dangerously cut us up, or our mother-in-law comes out with her usual critical remarks, then our frustration is our vulnerability speaking and a dose of Cherry Plum will help.

My own vulnerability is to the fore at present: I feel like a bee buzzing at a window – unable to get out and going mad in the attempt.  I feel I’m being manipulated in a way that makes me want to say something I would be bound to regret.  But so much in our relationships with others is about perception rather than reality, that I know a dose or two of Cherry Plum will restore my emotional balance, soothe my vulnerability and improve my response to the situation.



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