Rigidity

It’s a sad symptom of this polluted world that so many people – on social media or on the streets – have a toxic and intransigent opinion that is often expressed with violence or threats.  This unyielding mindset tells us that emotionally they are out of balance.

People who are convinced they are right are often rigid about it and Dr Bach mentions this in The Twelve Healers.

His opening sentence on Vervain reads, ’Those with fixed principles and ideas which they are confident are right, and which they very rarely change.’  He says something similar of other remedies, for instance under Chicory, ‘… always finding something that should be put right. They are continually correcting….’  And of Vine he writes, ‘as they are certain is right.   Even in illness they will direct their attendants.’ 

This rigid mentality is there in Rock Water too, ‘Those who are very strict in their way of living’.  Strict comes from the Latin, ‘[drawn] tight’ which again implies inflexibility, the narrowness of the single-track mind.  These remedies are all in the same Group (Over-care for the Welfare for Others) so it’s not surprising that Beech has this same uncompromising outlook (my judgement is the only correct one) and strictness about how other people should behave.  We take Beech  ‘although much appears to be wrong . . . . so as to be able to be more tolerant, lenient…’ ie the very antithesis of rigidity and strict rules.

It turns out that the words ‘rigid’ and ‘right’ are connected.  Where we believe the right way is the correct way, the word ‘correct’ comes from the same root as ‘rigid’. ‘Correct’ comes from the Latin ‘made straight’ while the word ‘right’ comes from the Latin ‘ruled, denoting movement in a straight line’.   Which is to say, a line that doesn’t deviate, any more than rigidity would deviate or become flexible. 

When we find that we are being too strict on ourselves or on others, unwilling to compromise on their point of view or even tolerate their way of doing things, then the flower remedies can restore our sense of proportion, our kinship with others, and our kindness.

 

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